SUNDAY 25 OCT 2026
Reading books bought at the Helsinki Book Fair.
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| Kira Poutanen: Pariisi-koodi: paperisotaa & poskisuudelmia ranskalaisittain [The Paris Code: Red Tape & Bises, French Style]. SKS-Kirjat 2026. |
SKS-KIRJAT: "Kira Poutanen’s essay collection on Paris offers a sharp, personal account of life in a city that is simultaneously mythical, unpredictable, and irresistibly beautiful.
“In reality, there is only Paris and you. Paris and me. Paris and us. Come, let’s head to Paris. Let’s go inside, dive into its veins, submerge ourselves in the Métro, and wander through its winding passageways. Let’s celebrate until dawn, only to hop on the first train of the morning—well after five o’clock.”
Having lived in Paris for nearly thirty years, author, translator, and journalist Kira Poutanen explores the invisible codes of conduct in Paris and France. She examines the experience of living between a sense of being an outsider and the process of putting down roots—in a country about which everyone holds their own preconceived notions.
Pariisi-koodi (The Paris Code) is a sharp, personal journey into the life of a Finn abroad and into the city of love—a place that has weathered many hardships, and where the glitter on the surface rarely aligns with the struggles of everyday life. Rather than attempting to explain Paris, Poutanen explores it like a riddle, the secret code of which can only be deciphered over the course of many years.
Kira Poutanen is a Finnish author, translator, and journalist who lives and works in France. Her body of work ranges from prose—including a Finlandia Prize-winning title—to television scripts, children’s literature, and literary translations. Poutanen has worked as a correspondent in France for outlets including MTV Uutiset."
AA: I read Kira Poutanen's account about her expedition into Paris almost in one go. She entered as a student from Northern Europe and experienced the cultural clash in the hard way but stayed, got married and raised a family in Paris. Her story offers a fascinating parallel with Simon Kuper's excellent Impossible City (Profile Books 2024) and his wife Pamela Druckerman's Bringing Up Bébé (Penguin 2012).
Both books are records of Jewish life during a decade of growing antisemitism. Where Kuper and Druckerman are both Jewish, Poutanen the gentile is married with a Jew and shares the full menu of what that means, becoming an interlocutor for sometimes incredulous circles.
Poutanen has lived in Paris 30 years, Kuper & Druckerman 25 years. Poutanen's profound wisdom in the book for me resides in her ongoing encounters with the mysteries of the French language. It is a philosophical exercise (thinking about thinking) and an exploration into identity, multiplied in the adventure story of being a mother to a bi-lingual child in Paris.
Not discussed by Poutanen is the epochal transformation in the language world of Paris during the last 30 years: the Internet, English becoming a world language with a domination like no other language has ever seen, even Parisians speaking English to the point that they refuse to speak French with foreigners unless they speak it like natives. Obviously, Poutanen, Kuper and Druckerman do.
As I write this, the 17 October 2026 riots are front-page news, and protesters atop the Statue de la République (11th arrondissement) are its symbol. Poutanen, Kuper and Druckerman all inhabit the 11e arrondissement (as do I during springtime stays). From his perfect observation point, Simon Kuper has written a remarkable weekend essay on the riots (Financial Times, 24 Oct 2026).
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| Kirsti Kuosmanen: Venuksen puutarha — tantrakirja naisen syvimpään olemukseen / [The Garden of Venus – a Tantra Book to the Deepest Essence of Woman]. 301 pages. Viisas Elämä 2026. |
VIISAS ELÄMÄ: "The Garden of Venus – a Tantra Book to the Deepest Essence of Woman is a sensual and empowering Tantra book for women. It is an invitation to return to your own body, to pleasure, and to the power of the sacred feminine.
This book is dedicated to women who long for a deeper connection with themselves and wish to flourish in their full bloom. Through the teachings of Tantra, sensuality and sexuality are viewed as gateways to spiritual growth and self-discovery. Every touch, every breath, and every emotion offers an opportunity to awaken your deepest life force. The book serves as a reminder that pleasure is sacred, wisdom is inborn, and power is wild.
The book contains various tools to help you build a bridge between your body, mind, and sexuality, including:
– Body-awareness exercises that help deepen your presence and enable you to better perceive the messages from your body.
– Meditations and rituals designed to release old, limiting beliefs and help you break free from the shackles of the past.
The Garden of Venus is a journey that liberates, awakens, and nourishes. It invites you to bring into reality what you already know in your heart. Welcome to the Garden of Venus—you have come home.
Kirsti Kuosmanen is a Tantra teacher, psychotherapist, sex therapist, author, and actress. She has been actively teaching Tantra in Finland for over 10 years. She has previously published the books Hehkuvan naisen salaisuuksia (Otava, 2020) and Hehkuvan naisen voimavuodet (Bazar, 2023)."
AA: Kirsti Kuosmanen's The Garden of Venus is a book of endless happiness. Many people, Finns above all, are baffled by the fact that Finland is voted year after year as "the happiest country in the world". My personal conviction: make women happier, and everyone gets happier. Fair play, equal power, equal pay, in the first instance. A lot more will follow. Sex is our superpower, and women are more talented in emotional intelligence, love and sex. I am a feminist of the old school. Like Socrates according to Plato in Symposium: Diotima was the greatest teacher in love including the highest form, the love of wisdom = philosophy (philos/loving of sophia/wisdom). Like Goethe: woman as the supreme teacher and educator in Bildung. Die Wahlverwandtschaften. Faust. "Das Unbeschreibliche, hier ist's getan, das Ewig-Weibliche zieht uns hinan". The Garden of Venus may be a divertissement based on Western notions and practices far removed from the Hindu and Buddhist origins of Tantra. But it is a refreshing book in its uninhibited celebration of female pleasure. Men should read it and learn.

























